joreth: (Nude Drawing)
Here's an article about Google Health and privacy. And to be honest, I don't understand what the concern is about here. In this article, they talk about 2 issues. The first is how "creepy" it is that Google Health has a section where you can put your Last Wishes, so your doctor and family are absolutely clear on what they should and shouldn't do when you die. Why is this creepy? We write Last Will And Testaments, don't we? Why shouldn't we want to make sure that as many people as relevantly possible know our last wishes so that no one can take over and trump what we requested?

That's actually a concern of mine. I'm afraid my parents will take over and do something religious or stupid regarding my remains (or worse yet, my not-quite-remains) because I'm not married and I don't have a will. But even if I were married, my parents could still cause trouble if they wanted to (I don't really think they would go against a legal document, but it has been known to happen to other people). Look at poor Maria Schiavo. She and her husband discussed, at length, her last wishes, yet her parents managed to tie her body up for years in legal and political battles, prolonging her and her husband's pain, drawing out the process. Because of her, there is suddenly an intense interest in this country for Living Wills.

But then the article goes on to say that "some people will find this [feature] sinister" and immediately follows it up with the fear that Google will tailor its advertising to you.

Huh?

First of all, Google *does* have to make money somehow. If we're not paying them for all their wonderful services, they have to get funding from somewhere to provide all those wonderful free services. I don't see that as inherenly a bad thing. But good regulation to keep it under control is in order too.  The concern here is that "the customer is always right", which, in this case, makes the Customer the Advertiser, not the end-user.  And that's a very valid concern, but that's where regulation of policy comes in, where Google's policy does explicitly state that they won't use the data in the Health section to determine medical advertisers when you're trying to search for medical information.

Second, I'm supposed to be upset that Google wants to know what kind of advertising I would want and don't want? I would be THRILLED to have my time no longer wasted for ads for penile enhancements or children's college investments. PLEASE tailor your ads to me and stop wasting my time!  And to do it on a personalized basis, not on a demographic bases would be fantastic!  That way they won't withold their ads for power tools just because I'm a girl.

No one seemed to have any problems when regular network television offered their programming "for free" because it was paid for by advertisers.  Well, OK, some people do have a problem with that, which is why there's Public Access, but PBS is constantly struggling to find funding and remain on the air because too many people feel entitled to free programming and are not willing to pay PBS.  And no one has any problems that the advertisers do demographic surveys to make sure that their ads for Sexy Singles are not played during Spongebob, and Super Duper Playdoh isn't advertized during the football game, and feminine hygene products are not advertized during The Man Show.  In fact, every time the advertisers guess wrong, even "wrong" by a minority viewpoint, it makes headlines with a lengthy legal battle started by people who wish to be protected from seeing or experiencing anything they don't like or agree with.

But media and entertainment that I don't have to pay for, in exchange for limited advertising and having the advertising content match the content of the media, I think these are Good Things.

I *do* think we ought to be vigilant about making sure that when Google says they will not sell ad space during a medical information search, that's exactly what happens. I think there are reasonable and necessary regulations that ought to be in place. I'm not in favor of a Free Market when it comes to the medical field, for a number of reasons that [livejournal.com profile] aclaro defends much more adequately than I do, so I do not want my medical information to come only from the highest bidder. I am NOT advocating a regulation-free service.

But I AM advocating a switch from a mindset that says we must guard our information so intently that, when it's necessary for someone else to have the information, they can't access it. Unmarried, civil-unioninzed, or only-legally-married-in-some-other-place people face all kinds of difficulties in emergency situations with getting the proper information to those who need to know. A work-around is assigning someone as a Medical Power of Attorney, but you still have to *prove* that, and that could take time that you don't have. And if a parent or biological relative disagrees, they can stop you even if you have total legal rights, or at least they can gum up the works for so long that they might as well have stopped you.

And a doctor who doesn't know something specific about you because your records are being held hostage by another doctor, or your Medical Power of Attorney hasn't arrived yet, can do just as much damage. How many times could death or illness have been prevented if the doctor had a program that kept track of all your medications and warned him when he prescribed something that conflicted with something that person was already taking? How many times could that have been prevented if the pharmacy double checked the patient history for the same reason?  My aunt died because, when she fell ill, a doctor prescribed an MRI for her and refused to listen to her half-coherent mumblings that she had some condition that made it inadvisable to have an MRI.  Her family didn't know about it and she wasn't coherent enough to make any sense and this was an emergency doctor, not the physician who was responsible for whatever it is she had that conflicted with the MRI.  So she had an MRI and she died 24 hours later.  That wouldn't have happened if the doctor had a handheld device that had her complete medical records, that when he put in his recommendation for an MRI, the device beeped at him and said "this conflicts with a previous treatment", which is exactly what Google Health does.

And how many people could have avoided being infected with an STD if our society did not discourage the open discussion of sexual history and test results? If we didn't persist in the illusion that it's not "romantic" to discuss these things, or that it takes the "spontaneity" out of the sex (which is a whole other issue that sex is dirty and bad and only justifiable if you're so overwhelmed with passion that you cannot make logical, rational decisions that say you *intend* to have sex and to do it safely), or that learning about your partner's history makes you feel icky because you have "specialness" issues wrapped up in your ranking as sex partner?

These are much bigger problems than whether or not Google will try to show me ads in a sidebar, and are easily solved with more accessible and easily shared data. The policy of denying healthcare to people with pre-existing conditions is a real problem, and that goes along with the issues of Free Market and privitized healthcare that I alluded to earlier and I won't get into now. And that should be addressed, but Google Health and other information databases are not the point at which we should be addressing them. Those problems are much deeper in the system and should be attacked at the source.

Security should always be a concern, but what are you trading for your illusion of security?


Star Party

Jun. 29th, 2009 02:49 pm
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
http://www.atlantaskeptics.com/2009-star-party-a-full-moon-for-cancer/

The Atlanta Skeptics are proud to present “A Full Moon for Cancer” - a Star Party in memory of Jeff Medkeff. The event will be hosted by renowned astronomers Phil Plait and Pamela Gay.

 

When: Thursday, September 3, 2009, 7 p.m.

Where: The Bradley Observatory at Agnes Scott College

Proceeds to go to the American Cancer Society

Please join the Atlanta Skeptics on Thursday, September 3, 2009 for stargazing, dinner, drinks and conversations with astronomers. As part of the International Year of Astronomy, we’re hosting a star party to celebrate the beauty of the universe around us while raising money for a great cause.

Astronomers Phil Plait and Pamela Gay will be hosting the event, leading guests in exploration of the skies, and discussing what we see.
This event is in honor of Jeff Medkeff, the Blue Collar Scientist, astronomer, skeptic and friend to many of us. Jeff succumbed to liver cancer in 2008. All proceeds will go toward the American Cancer Society in Jeff’s name.

Ticket Prices:
$65 - Includes stargazing, lecture, dinner and 4 drink tickets (beer or wine)
$50 - Includes stargazing, lecture, dinner and soft drinks

Dressy/Cocktail attire is suggested.

We will also be sending a video feed of Pamela and Phil’s lecture into the planetarium. You may purchase tickets for the lecture only for $10.
Please note, there is a $2.00 shipping charge for online or mail-in payments. If you can to pay in person by check or another method, please contactatlantaskeptics@gmail.com to avoid this charge.
joreth: (polyamory)
[livejournal.com profile] tacit just posted about this iPhone app on Twitter, and I think it's great, so I'm going to mention it here.

It's called the Amazing Girlfriend Manager, and here is the description:

With this application you can improve your relationships by applying concepts of CRM (Customer Relationship Management) on your girlfriends. Think about your girlfriend as a client! What information and tools you need to improve your relationship? This application is the answer.

Features of this application:
- Allows you to manage multiple girlfriends at the same time (not recommended for moral reasons)
- You can assign a rating for each girl
- Stores personal information, preferences, sizes of clothing, notes and other data for each girl

For each girl you can register:
- Gifts given and received, cost and rating
- Dates, location, cost and rating
- Special dates (first date, first kiss, first trip together, bla bla bla…)

Benefits that this application can bring to you:
- Don’t make mistakes. Check the measurements of the girl before you buy a new pair of shoes or clothing
- Be creative. Do not repeat gifts
- Be more creative. Avoid always going to the same places with the same girl
- Be attentive. Do not forget your special dates
- Be healthy. Do not mix information from two girls
- Be the master. Show to your friends your long list of girls
- Be selective. Through the analysis of ratings and cost of dates and gifts, you can keep only the girls with the best cost-benefit

Now, aside from the irritating "not recommended for moral reasons", "be the master" bit, and a line at the end of the description that advises never letting your girlfriend see this app, I agree with [livejournal.com profile] tacit in that I think this would make an excellent resource for poly people ... particularly those Ps among you who can't keep shit straight!

As ya'll should know by now, and as many of you probably also do, I maintain an online wishlist that my sweeties (and anyone else, like my parents) can go to when they want to buy me something, to make sure they buy me something I actually want.  I also maintain an online calendar, and now that I've switched to Google, I'd like to share my calendars with my sweeties, but one I don't think even knows what a calendar is and the other has privacy paranoia issues.  So, somewhat ironically, I'm sharing calendars with a few friends with whom I almost never plan joint activities yet have no clue about my sweeties' daily plans.

But the point is that I already use digital efficiency devices to keep track of things like anniversaries and birthdays and dates.  I can remember things I write down pretty well, but I can't seem to remember which day it *is*, so even though I know my mother's birthday is May 8th, I might not remember that *today* is May 8th (for example), so I forget things like anniversaries all the time.  And ever since I graduated junior high, my relationships no longer start with "will you be my girlfriend?" and instead just sort of evolve over time into relationships, with graduated levels of intimacy.  We talk about them all the time, but there's rarely a specific date I can point to and say "that's the day we got together".  Of course, then we would have to define "together", which is a whole other topic.

So what I'm trying to say is that I would LOVE an app that conveniently gathers data like all my sweeties' birthdays and anniversaries, and what they like, and their clothing sizes and what I've purchased for them before, etc. into one, portable location.  It would be nice to list some of my metamours on there too. I did email them to ask when they're coming out with an Amazing Boyfriend Manager, or perhaps a gender-neutral term like Social Network Manager or something, so I'm holding off on buying it until I hear something back.  But it's only a dollar, so if there is no Boyfriend app, I might get it anyway.

But clearly, the poly/geek community is the perfect target demographic for this app.

**UPDATE**
I just got an email back from the creator who says he has been thinking of doing a gender-neutral version and he really likes the idea of including the metamours that I suggested (that word was not used specifically, but I did ask to be able to list "the girlfriends of my boyfriends" and he thought is sounded "really nice")!
joreth: (strong)

Brandi Chastain and Julio Iglesias Jr. compete in The Superstars.ABC/Adam Larkey - Thursday, June, 11, 2009, 12:11 AM
Brandi Chastain and Julio Iglesis Jr.
Loosely based on the ABC classic ``Wide World of Sports,'' this show pairs eight celebrities with professional athletes from a variety of different sports for sporting events and challenges, including swimming, biking, running, kayaking and more. The teams are tested on speed, stamina, strength and strategy as well. Each week one team of athletes is eliminated a winning pair is left. The show is shot on location in the Bahamas.

For the record, Brandi is my cousin, not Julio Iglesis.  She's best known as that soccer player who took her shirt off at the end of the game (while wearing a sports bra), and completely forgotten as the soccer player who scored the winning goal in the world championship game against a goalie who blocked her goal in the same event the previous year, causing her team to lose by one point that year.  She's also a 2x gold medalist in soccer and a staunch proponent of strong women.  She posed nude for Nike as part of her personal campaign to show that strength in women is beautiful and strength can also be "feminine".  Needless to say, I respect and admire her immensely.
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
 I have 3 extra tickets to participate in a survey whose findings will directly influence what you see on TV in the future.  I have been selected to evaluate not-yet released TV material that is being considered for nationwide broadcast.  

We will get a chance to express our opinions about what we see in a way that will actually be listened to by people involved with television.  We will be providing direct feedback to producers, directors, sponsors and other people behind TV who in turn will be better able to understand and respond to our viewing preferences.  

The TV Preview is for Saturday, June 20th at 7:30 PM in Orlando.  The first 3 people who contact me get the extra tix.
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
Here's some of what ya'll missed at the Trampoline / Belly Dance event last week:








joreth: (Rock Climbing)
A couple of weekends ago, I asked my friends to assist me in making a full-sized custom dress dummy, from neck to ankles. The pictures and instructions are now up! http://www.theinnbetween.net/dressdummy.html

joreth: (Bad Computer!)

 

I'm quitting PolyCentral. Read the rant if you really care. )


However, since I have already arranged for the meeting space and I already have the key to the building, I'm thinking of starting up OrlandoPoly and running it on the first Sunday of every month.  What do you local people think about that?

joreth: (Purple Mobius)
May 23rd The Woodshed will host the Orlando Munch's Polyamory Discussion Panel. Join several members of the Central Florida community as they discuss polyamory and what it means to them.

The panelists come from a variety of backgrounds and include those who mix BDSM into their poly relationships as well as those who don't. They'll talk about what has worked for them as well as the pitfalls that they have discovered along the way.

We hope to make this an interactive discussion with plenty of time for Q&A so please don't be afraid to bring your own thoughts and questions!

The dungeon will be open afterward starting 8pm.

Date: May 23rd
Time: 6:00PM-8:00PM
Location: The Woodshed Dungeon
6325 North Orange Blossom Trail,
Suite 138A,
Orlando, FL 32810
joreth: (Default)

At the Enzian Theatre in Orlando:
O N E    N I G H T   O N L Y
FERRIS BUELLER'S 
DAY OFF

Tomorrow, May 12 at 9:30PM
ONLY $5
 

 
Bueller...Bueller... FERRIS BUELLER'S DAY OFF: Tuesday, May 12 @ 9:30PM Ferris Bueller is a tricky but harmless fast-talker. But he knows how to have fun, which is exactly what he sets out to do when he feigns illness and talks his parents into letting him stay home from school.
 
Another classic from writer-director John Hughes (SIXTEEN CANDLES), star Matthew Broderick received a Golden Globe nomination for Best Actor. 

 
joreth: (Rock Climbing)


http://www.diningoutforlife.com/tampabay  (Tampa is the closest participant to me, but visit the main site for locations around the US near you!)

Dining Out for Life Tampa Bay is just around the corner...

Thursday, April 30, 2009

We at ASAP are so proud to be part of Dining Out for Life International. The success of this event generally lies upon getting the word out, as the amount of money raised depends upon how many people participate. Dining Out for Life is all about raising money to help our fathers, mothers, brothers, and sisters who are infected with HIV/AIDS. This event truly shows the efforts of community coming together to meet a need. Join myself and a team of generous restaurants, ambassadors, volunteers and diners as we give the gift of life.

100% of the donations will stay here in Tampa Bay to provide direct client services to those affected and infected by HIV and AIDS. To "Dine Out" simply navigate to the Participating Restaurants area, find a restaurant you would like to visit, invite all of your friends, enjoy a night out and know that 25% of what you spend goes toward those that desperately need it. If you will not be able to join us and would like to contribute, or if you are interested in more information about the event please contact me at (727) 328-3268 or AnthonyBarros@ASAPServices.org.
 

Restaurant Locations - anyone have a preference? )
joreth: (::headdesk::)
Many people have written about this, but I've copied and pasted [livejournal.com profile] tacit 's post and I urge everyone else to participate:

So apparently, Amazon.com has recently shot themselves in the foot.

Specifically, they've taken to removing sales rank from books that are deemed to have a gay or lesbian theme. This means, among other things, that books with a gay or lesbian theme won't come up in certain kinds of searches and don't appear in lists or pages of popular books regardless of their popularity.

Amazon's given a number of explanations for this behavior, each of which has been contradictory. Their explanations have been all over the map; at first they claimed that "adult" books aren't ranked or listed by popularity (which is, as any user of Amazon knows, manifestly untrue); more recently, theyre calling it an unintentional "software glitch". They've sent emails to some of the authors of the books that have had their rankings removed, which have likewise been all over the map.

Since the street finds its own uses for things, one of the ways that annoyed Net users have retaliated is with a good old-fashioned Google bomb. A Google bomb raises the Google keyword result for a specific keyword (in this case, "Amazon rank") by placing links using those keywords all over the place.

So, in the spirit of using Google as a blunt instrument for social change (as former Google engineer Christophe Bisciglia said of MapReduce, "When you have a really big hammer, everything becomes a nail"), I present to you:

Amazon Rank

Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): amazon ranked
1. To censor and exclude on the basis of adult content in literature (except for Playboy, Penthouse, dogfighting and graphic novels depicting incest orgies).
2. To make changes based on inconsistent applications of standards, logic and common sense.
joreth: (Flogging)
I'm attending Frolicon for the first time, and I'd like to know if anyone is interested in carpooling.

I will be driving up on April 9th, the first day of Frolicon.  The schedule is not yet available, but last year's schedule is posted and it says that nothing happened the first day until that evening.  So I did not reserve a hotel room for the night before Frolicon, to save some money and I plan to drive up early that morning.

Last year's schedule also says that nothing was scheduled at all on Sunday, although events ran until late Saturday night, so I'm pretty sure that I did not reserve a room for the night of the 12th either, and I am planning to leave Atlanta on Sunday the 12th.  If the hotel would get back to me with my confirmation, I can say for sure if I reserved a room Sunday night or not, but no one on the Frolicon staff or the Frolicon LJ community can tell me whether there is programming on Sunday or not, let alone which panels are scheduled for which times.

So, until I find out further information, I am planning to drive up early on April 9th to arrive by roughly 5 PM, and leaving Atlanta on Sunday, April 12th in the afternoon (departing from and returning to Orlando).  Is anyone else going to Frolicon and do you have similar travel schedule and interested in carpooling?

Pain

Feb. 14th, 2009 06:25 pm
joreth: (Rock Climbing)
Jesus fucking christ I hurt!  My thighs are burning, my knees hurt, and I have limited range of motion in my arms and neck.  I can't remember the last time I was in this much physical pain!

And I can't wait to do it again!!!!

[livejournal.com profile] femetal , [livejournal.com profile] datan0de , [livejournal.com profile] sterlingsilver9  and I went to Rebounderz, an indoor trampoline gym, last night.  We only bought an hour of bounce time and I'm pretty sure I sat, gasping, for more than half of it.  I am depressingly out of shape, but last night ranks up there at the top of Most Funnest Times Ever (with my clothes on). 

I eventually got the hang of jumping off the floor-trampoline to bounce off the wall and landing back on the floor-trampoline on my feet, but I never did quite master the bounce-off-the-wall maneuver on my back.  Landing on the wall on my hands and feet, looking like a 4-legged spider and bouncing off was about all I could manage.  Major envy for the guys who could flip off the walls!  And [livejournal.com profile] sterlingsilver9  got pretty good at bouncing off one wall, hitting the floor-tramp in one jump, and bouncing off the opposite wall.  Me, not so much.

Seriously gotta do that again!

(as soon as I can lift myself out of this chair)
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)

http://www.ihoppancakeday.com/pancake-day-details.html

Flip for Free Pancakes!
February 24, 2009

Join IHOP to celebrate National Pancake Day on Tuesday, February 24, 2009. From 7 a.m. to 10 p.m., we’ll give you one free short stack (three) of our famous buttermilk pancakes.* All we ask is that you consider making a donation to support local children’s hospitals through Children’s Miracle Network, or other local charities.

Known also as Fat Tuesday or Mardi Gras, National Pancake Day dates back several centuries to when the English prepped for fasting during Lent. Strict rules prohibited the eating of all dairy products during Lent, so pancakes were made to use up the supply of eggs, milk, butter and other dairy products…hence the name Pancake Tuesday, or Shrove Tuesday.

joreth: (Default)

There have been several different social events suggested recently, and I'd like to try and get some of them organized.  So, here's what I see coming up:

Rebounderz Planet Jump - Indoor Trampoline Gym.  Although weekends are the most popular amongst my friends, Friday Night offers a "trick class" from 6:00 - 7:30 and I think that sounds like great fun!  I'd like to try and plan it for Friday the 13th or Friday March 6th.  If Friday nights are not going to work for anyone, the weekend of March 6th should be OK too.  RSVP here: http://www.evite.com/app/publicUrl/VSYLRMKIOLBZBJHFCMQJ/trampoline

Ballroom Dancing - On Valentine's Day, there is a Singles Dance which starts at 7:30 PM with a Group Lesson, then the dance floor opens up from 8 PM to 11:30 PM.  Admission is $12 and includes a drink.  RSVP here:  http://www.evite.com/app/publicUrl/VMENRZZPXJTDXIWPEHLC/ballroom

Swing Dancing - March 14th and 28th offers Swing Dancing that begins with a Beginner Lesson from 8 to 9 PM and admission is $7 (although I am possibly working on this date, but I'm trying to keep it free and even if I am working, it's possible I'll get out of work in time).  RSVP here:  http://www.evite.com/app/publicUrl/OSXKMNBNSNGOIGLQSNZS/swingdance

Roller Skating - Wednesday Night is Budget Night - $3 admission, $1 skate rentals and a special $1 snack bar, from 7 PM to 9 PM with .  I'm thinking Wednesday, February 11th.  RSVP here:  http://www.evite.com/app/publicUrl/CPVOVWHASJXXDUIZSYNA/rollerskates

So, anyone interested?  Please visit the respective E-vite links to RSVP and vote on your preferred day.  Please also feel free to forward this to any Significant Others for whom I do not have email addresses if they want to RSVP independently.  All SOs are invited.
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
One of my pieces just got accepted to Nude Nite Orlando, an art show featuring nudes!  I'm so excited!

I don't expect it to sell, I'm just happy it got accepted!  So, come on out to Nude Nite and check out my work and all the other works of art!

http://www.nudeniteorlando.com/
joreth: (Purple Mobius)
A married poly couple in Atlanta are working on starting an activity group for Atlanta area polyamorous and poly-curious people in their 20s and 30s and have created a Google group for said group. Hit the link below to check it out and spread the word!

The Young Atlanta Poly People Google Group
joreth: (Nude Drawing)

Join Planned Parenthood of Greater Orlando in celebrating the 36th anniversary of Roe v Wade. This landmark Supreme Court decision overturned state and federal laws outlawing abortion in the US, giving women the right to privacy over their own bodies and medical decisions.

The Roe Anniversary Celebration will include presentations by PPGO's CEO and Director of Education, a representative from our local ACLU, and Vice President of VOX UCF. We will also be playing Choice Jeopardy and serving light refreshments.

Event details are as follows:

Location: First Unitarian Church of Orlando (1901 E Robinson St. Orlando 32803)

Date: Thursday, January 22nd

Time: 6:00pm-7:30pm

   

 

For more information, please contact Stefanie at 407-246-1788 X 108

 


Visit the web address below to tell your friends about this.
 Tell-a-friend!
 

joreth: (Nude Drawing)
Visit http://www.plannedparenthood.com/ for information about events in your local area:

January is Cervical Cancer Awareness month.  Come and learn about ways to protect yourself and loved ones.  Planned Parenthood of Greater Orlando is collaborating with the Orange County Library System to discuss information about Cervical Cancer and ways to prevent it.  Gardasil, the HPV Vaccine, will be highlighted as well as ways to get the vaccine for FREE!

This event is free and open to the public.  For your convenience, there will be four different informational sessions at various locations throughout the county.

                                           

 Saturday, January 10th: Eatonville Branch at 11:00am

 Saturday, January 10th: South Trail Branch at 2:30pm

 Tuesday, January 13th: Alafaya Branch at 6:30pm

 Wednesday, January 14th: Southeast Branch at 6:30pm

 

For more information, please feel free to call Lisa at 407-246-1788 ext. 113 or visit www.ocls.info

 


Visit the web address below to tell your friends about this.
 Tell-a-friend!

joreth: (Misty in Box)



Can't sleep.
Can't eat.
Can't talk.
Make it stop.
Don't offer me hugs or support.
If you can't make it go away, you can't help.

I'm going offline for a while.
joreth: (Xmas Kitties)

You're all welcome to join in at any point:
  • 3:00 PM - The Woodshed - in time for the Suspension Class.  There will be workshops offered all day, concluding with a fetish holiday party at 8 PM.  I think the usual $20 cover charge is in effect.
  • 9:00 PM - Swing Dancing - The Whirl & Twirl is changing their 2nd & 4th Saturday Swing Dance to a Christmas Swing Dance, with a beginner swing dance lesson at 8 PM.  Cover charge is $6.
  • 11:00 PM - Shady People - my buddy's band is playing down the street from the Whirl & Twirl at a place called Holly & Dolly's, where a bunch of bands are having a holiday party.  Shady People expect to go on stage around 11 PM, no idea about any other band.  They call themselvs a mix of "combination of Surf/Southern Rock/Folk/Reggae/Ska".  Cost is free!
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)

Avenue Q is touring and will be in Orlando December 2 - 7, 2008.  The ticket prices range from $107 per person to $122 per person, which means that I will probably not be able to afford to go.

But here's the only date that offers the $107 tix and from there you can navigate back to the list of dates and cities if you are not in the Orlando area, including Clearwater FL and San Jose CA:  http://www.ticketliquidator.com/tix/Tickets.aspx?evtid=826747
joreth: (Purple Mobius)
This is an email I received as a response to my poly presentation the other day.  I neglected to clearly post my email address for the audience members to contact me afterwards, but I did list my website at the top of the Resources page on the Handout I provided.  This individual visited my website and contacted me through the Contact Form on my website:

All personal information removed or changed to protect identity:

To mi'lady Inn Keeper, I was present at the Campus Freethought Alliance at UCF meeting on 05 November 2008. I would first like to thank you very much for taking the time to come out and speak to us. I will say that I learned a lot from your presentation, from confronting my own biases about the poly community (which I will get into), to perhaps opening my eyes to myself. If you do not mind the long message, I would like to somewhat borrow five or ten minutes of your day.

I have been unsuccessful with relationships in the past. One of them, in particular, is what somewhat made me jaded towards the poly community; two years ago, my partner at the time was poly and had not told me and had confirmed that we were monogamous. However, it came to light six months into the relationship that I had been a metamour without even knowing. Upon confronting him with this, he decided to come clean; however, he had cheated and I was somewhat broken inside; this made me resent the poly community. I went to your presentation to gain a perspective, one that I needed in order to reconcile the resentment that I had.

The information that you presented, both in the slideshow, the links you provided, and the interviews I found after googling your name (call me a nerd, but I like to learn) really opened my eyes to the entire community. I realised that I was, to an extent, stereotyping the entire community based on my experiences with this individual.So, perhaps it is foolish, but I would like to apologise coming into your presentation with the expectation of learning the justifications one uses to be a swinger.

I took extensive notes during the presentation (again: call me a nerd), ranging from graphs and diagrams of poly-schematic relationships, to other definitions (pl.spouse==>spice), and even mathematical equations that, when showed to my roommate, proved to be one that he uses in engineering.

I came away from your presentation not with a sense of resentment, but understanding. The pictures and stories you shared did not seem to be like what other groups have. Unlike some other alternative communities, which can often be full of cold, bitter people, it appears to me as if the poly community is full of more warmth, caring, and understanding (if that makes sense). So, while other people may have come away with a sense of boredom or "I already knew that", if your mission was to change the mind of one person, or to enlighten one person, you have succeeded on that mission.

I am now fervently doing research on the community on my own, and even considering if I identify as being poly (based on concepts both before and after your presentation). At the very least, you have a new supporter and friend in myself.Yet again, thank you very much for taking the time (and, in some cases, answering somewhat silly questions) from the group. I appreciate it.

This is why I do it.  To educate, to help.  This is why I am out.  This is why I risk public ridicule and lay my life out for public scrutiny.  My willingness to talk, to educate, to be open with strangers about who I am and what I do allowed this person to perhaps heal a past hurt and grow a little.  And to, just maybe, show someone that they are not alone, that there are more of us out here.

This person was able to put aside prejudice and learn to judge us on an individual basis ... and that judgement has found us to be not a threat, not harmful, and to help this person allow us to share the planet, the nation, our town.  This, ultimately, helps all the others who are not "out", and everyone who is not poly, but living around us.  This is why I feel so strongly about people outside of the "mainstream" being as out as they can; why I feel we have an obligation as someone who is not under threat of lawsuits, custody cases, or job loss to help those who do.

This is what it's all about.  I am not interested in converting.  If this person ultimately decides to remain monogamous, at least this person will have made a conscious choice, will enter into relationships with informed consent about all the options, and will choose a relationship style that will fit this person best, not try to fit into the dominant paradigm even if it's a little too tight, like the wrong-size shoes. And, regardless of what decision this person ultimately makes, now knows who we are and that we can live and work together, side by side.

I am interested in helping everyone in our society learn to live together.  To re-examine where our prejudices come from.  To learn to evaluate people on an individual basis.  To form our judgements based on individual actions of the person we are judging.  To allow the people around us to choose the life that makes them happiest, even if it's not the choice we would make.  To not be afraid of personal growth, of learning new things about ourselves.  To continue learning and growing, to explore and experiment, to *know* ourselves.  To have choice in how our lives look.

Yes, dear reader, my goal was to educate even one person.  I thank you for the opportunity.
joreth: (Purple Mobius)
I gave a presentation today on the basics of Polyamory at UCF.  It was scheduled to start at 6:45 and I had planned to arrive at 6:00 to get into the room as early as possible to set up and be relaxed and waiting by showtime.

Thanks to traffic, I didn't even arrive until 6:45.

Luckily, we lost our room, so the group hosting the lecture was standing around in the lobby of the Student Union, trying to get some building flunky to give us meeting space when I arrived.  I don't know how or why we lost the room that the group uses every Wednesday evening at this same time slot, but we did.  So no one noticed that I was late (or at least, none of the audience members did).

So, the house-guy offered us a room that was twice as large as their normal room with the caveat that their people be allowed to clean up the snack table at the back of the room (left over from the previous gathering) during our meeting.  Of course we agreed, not having any other room to fall back on.  This room even left their wireless microphones, so I had audio (which was a concern in their usual room - they don't always get audio equipment and when they do, it doesn't always work).

So, I plugged in my laptop to the projector, got the PowerPoint presentation started, cliped on the lav mic and away we went.

Everyone came up to tell me that it went well, and a few of those people I even trust to tell me the truth.  Although it was a scripted speech (I opted for a script to make sure I didn't forget anything important, as opposed to just notes or memorized or winging it), people seemed to think I delivered it well and the handful of jokes I threw in got laughs.

Then came the Q&A.  I was anxiously awaiting the hardball questions dealing with "morality" and arguments over my claims of safer sex practices being more prevalent in the poly community than in the public at large, but none of the questions were asked as an attack.  I did get one orgy question, but only one, and I did get a "what about the children" question, and I even got a "why more than one?" question, but everyone seems to think I handled them well enough, although I did come up with things I should have said, much later.

Someone asked if orgies were common, and I responded with "not nearly as common as some of us would like", followed by an explanation that, since it's not all about casual sex, you have to find partners who A) like you, B) like your other partners and C) have a compatible orienation, and that's much more rare than some of us might wish.

The children question was a generic "how do families handle having kids, who is the 'parent'" kind of question, but it seemed to me that it was an honest curiousity about logistics, rather than a moralistic harm point of view.  So I explained that there were 2 answers to her question.  The first was that some poly families don't want children.  The other was that, historically, familes have always had several adults to help with the childrearing, such as aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc., so who is the bio parent isn't really a big issue and that poly people were just as likely to handle their sex lives with discretion as mono people were.  This was the question I ended up coming up with more examples for later on.

Then there was the inevitable guy who asked "I've already found The One, so why would someone want more than one?", to which I responded "why not?".  I then went onto explain that some people do find their romantic attention being kept and maintained by a single person and that's fine for them, but many of us do not.

So, I think it went well, and people came up to me afterwards with a few more questions, but mostly to thank me and say that they learned a lot and they liked how I explained things (it's amazing how tone and vocal inflection can change my pragmatic writing style from aggressive to simply practical!).  A few people asked for how to get in touch with me afterwards, including one girl who was poly but had no idea there was a poly community in the area.

I'm hoping to convert my PowerPoint into a flash video with an audio recording of my speech to play on my website.  Also, [livejournal.com profile] thisisjessa had the whole thing recorded on video, so maybe I'll get a copy of that too.  I enjoyed giving the speech and several people have expressed interest in hearing me speak again.  So if anyone has a group that would like to hear an introduction to Polyamory, and I can reasonably find a way to attend, I'd be more than happy to come speak.
joreth: (Self-Portrait)

I just returned from a trip to Ohio to visit my sweetie and meet his family for the first time.  I took some pictures.  Most are pictures of the most adorable barn kitten evar (poor thing had something wrong with its eyes), some are of the other barn cats, some are of a family graveyard, and some are miscellaneous other things.  Plus, some very bizarre signage:

Images behind the cut )
The rest of the pictures, for those who are interested, can be found at my website.  www.theinnbetween.net/catphoto.html has all the cats, www.theinnbetween.net/landscapes.html has the graveyard and a bunch of other stuff, and www.theinnbetween.net/architecture.html has a couple of barn photos.
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
For my own reference and anyone who cares, I'm posting the schedule of panels and workshops I plan to attend.

I have several conflicting panels (which are all color-coded) but the panels I am currently leanings towards choosing have a bold box around them.

Other entries in this series are:

Dragoncon Maps - these are all large jpgs that can be downloaded and printed or stored on the iTouch, iPhone, or any other PDA that accepts jpg images.  They include detailed maps of all levels of all hotels of the convention, which are also available in PDF form as the Pocket Program directly from the Dragoncon website.
Dragoncon Food Map - Google Maps offers a list of all the restaurants within walking distance of the con hotels.  This map can also be saved to a PDA as a jpg for reference at the con, or follow the link to the actual Google Maps page with the restaurant listings.
joreth: (Super Tech)

Anyone who has an iTouch or iPhone or any other portable PDA-type device who would like maps of Dragoncon to carry around digitally can download these images and store them however you would view jpgs on your device. Of course, the pdf is also available from the D'con website, but it's more than 100 pages and if your device doesn't do pdfs or has slow load times for files that large, you're outta luck.


joreth: (Rock Climbing)
OK, here's the deal.  We're planning to see the Holiday Fireworks at Magic Kingdom at 9 PM.  We will enter through the Grand Floridian and walk to the Gasparilla Grill and Games (http://www.wdwinfo.com/wdwinfo/dining/diningdetail.cfm?Restaurant.ID=30).  There is no cover charge or theme park admission to enter. From there we will be having an early supper, cafeteria style at 7:00 PM.  I know it's early, but the crowds fill up fast.  We can eat (or not eat, if you'd prefer) on the dock itself to wait for the show.  If anyone would like to choose a different restaurant, you can visit http://www.wdwinfo.com/wdwinfo/dining/disneydining.cfm and look under the heading "Grand Floridian" for other restaurants in the immediate vicinity (Narcoosee, which is very expensive, has a private dock from which to view the show).  Then, we'll walk out towards the end of the pier to get a good spot and just hang out until the fireworks begin at 9.   From this vantage point, Disney will pipe out the music that the fireworks are timed to.

It's a pretty good show, especially for free.  If anyone is planning to attend, feel free to let me know so I'll know to keep an eye out for you!  Carpooling can also be arranged.
 
joreth: (Rock Climbing)
[profile] zen_shooter and I are thinking of watching the Disney fireworks for 4th of July. We can watch from several places that do not require park admission, although I will probably get there really early and have dinner while we're waiting. If anyone else doesn't have plans, you're welcome to join us. 

(Significant Others automatically included if I did not invite them directly). 
joreth: (Rock Climbing)
7:30 PM - 30-minute Group lesson East Coast Swing. 8:00 PM - Friday Fiesta open-floor dance (all dance styles from swing, to latin, to smooth ballroom). Admission: $12 for Social Group lesson, Friday Fiesta Dance, and soft drink.  There will also be a LIVE BAND!

Music 8 PM til 11:30 PM

Longwood Ballroom
311 Dane Lane
Longwood, FL

http://www. danceorlandoclub. com/

(If you would like actual email request for these types of events, please send me your real email address and I'll include you next time)
 

Dragoncon!

Jun. 17th, 2008 02:55 pm
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)

I'm making this post full of info that *I* will want for Dragoncon so that it'll all be in one convenient location when I get there, which also means that I'll be updating this post with new information as it comes along.

First of all, if anyone is interested in any of the major group activities where I'll be, I'll be posting my schedule in my Yahoo calendar.  You must be on my Friends' list to view it, and for that you need a Yahoo ID.  So if you have a Yahoo ID and can't see my calendar but want to, let me know.

Next is the info that Dragoncon will be held in FOUR hotels this year instead of just 3.  I haven't even bought my tix yet, but so far I plan to attend.  I'll be driving up with [livejournal.com profile] zen_shooter and I will be staying either with[livejournal.com profile] tacit or [livejournal.com profile] zen_shooter & [livejournal.com profile] may_dryad depending on the day and what's going on with whom.

This year I plan to spend way less effort on the costuming and actually visit some panels!  They're not posted yet, but from the track descriptions, I anticipate spending a lot of time in the Science track.

There is talk about the usual Benihana's trip at the end of the con.  Last year we did Dante's decadent fondue feast the night before the con, but I don't see as much interest in that this year, although I'd really like to do it again.  For my own reference, I've pulled up a list of restaurants within 1 mile of the convention site, which I'll put behind a cut so as to not screw up everyone's friends list pages.

 

 

Dragoncon Food Map )


Azio's (which is F on the map) was a place we tried out last year and I thought it was pretty good.  The food was decent, the prices were reasonable for a sit-down restaurant walking distance from a major convention, it was walking distance from the con, and they were able to accomodate a large group that kept changing size as more people showed up late and other people left early and checks had to be divided up in the oh-so-messily way that poly groups at restaurants do.  So I'm up for this place again too.  I can only eat convention pizza so many times in a row!

joreth: (::headdesk::)
OK, this has come up several times recently by several people regarding several different exes, so I'm going to make a public announcement because this is one of my pet peeves.

I DO NOT HAVE ANY PROBLEMS ATTENDING SOCIAL FUNCTIONS WITH ANY OF MY EXES OR THEIR CURRENT PARTNERS.

 I am friends with or friendly with almost all of my ex-partners, including that asshole who couldn't figure out how to quit the Freaks list a couple years ago.  Anyone not actively in my life is only not there because we lost touch over the years, but I would be friendly or polite towards if I ran into them again.

At the very worst, I mean absolutely the most disliked ex-partner ever, I am still capable of remaining politely civil and treating such a person as merely a stranger I haven't met yet and have no interest in outside of polite social conversation within the context of that event.

I've never really understood the inability to get along with exes after a breakup (in fact, I have a whole journal entry planned on this topic, I just haven't gotten around to posting it yet).  I do understand having emotional upset immediately after a change in status, but it has never affected my ability to be polite or enjoy a social function at which they just happen to be present.  The fact that someone else is breathing the same air somewhere near me doesn't affect my enjoyment of the event in the least.  And my goal with all my relationships is to become a friendly ex, so it's pretty rare that I'm just "polite".  I want to be genuinely warm and affectionate towards my exes and I work on my issues as quickly as possible to reach that level of friendship.  Two of my exes involved me sharing sleeping space that night after our breakup, so, really, I'm good with the exes!  Metamours, ex-metamours, and the ex's new girlfriends fall under the same treatment.

It has always driven me nuts to see people breakup and then fight custody battles over the mutual friends, dragging them into the fight, forcing them to choose which one to invite to which gathering or to take sides in the breakup.  I absolutely hate that and I think it's totally unfair to the mutual friends.  

So it is particularly irritating to me when friends self-regulate their guest list out of imagined fear of awkwardness or drama or, worse, self-censor their discussion out of fear of even mentioning the other person that might cause some angst.  Because *I* certainly didn't put them in that position, so it must mean that it's happen enough times with other people that my friends now do this automatically, as the default position and I have to suffer for it, because it hurts my feelings to find that one of us was not invited to a social gathering when the other was.  I hate feeling left out and I actively enjoy spending time with many of my exes, particularly in social gatherings with all our mutual friends around.

So, for the record, if anyone happens to have any of my exes in their social circle, I am more than just comfortable with my exes being present, I actively enjoy social gatherings that happen to have my exes present because I am still FRIENDS with them.  The few people in my past that I am not friends with do not have overlapping social circles which would cause them to be invited to the same gatherings as I am, but should that happen, I am perfectly capable of being polite, of avoiding drama or big scenes, and of minimizing any awkward tension others might feel with having both of us in the same room.

And while we're at it, I will not play this game either.  I do not have the memory or the attention span to remember who is not talking to whom.  I make my guest lists public and it is up to each of you to decide if your attendance is dependent upon the presence of any other guest.  If you're unsure because you can't see the guest list for any reason, ask me.  I do not consider that rude, I understand some people are *not* friendly exes.  Also, unless specifically stated, all "partners" (for whatever definition of "partner" you use) are automatically invited to my events when you are.

And no, this post was not sparked by *you* (if any of you think it was), this was sparked by a pattern I've seen emerge and a recent rash of social engagements where various hosts made mention or question of some ex who might or might not be there affecting my desire to attend.  Several people, several events, several exes. 

*EDIT* - See?  This really is a pattern.  I totally forgot that I already posted about this very subject a few months ago:  http://joreth.livejournal.com/62161.html.  That one was a little more generic about me being friendly exes and this one is a little more of a Public Service Announcement that people don't have to be careful about inviting me and my exes or talking about them to me, but I was serious when I said this was not because of *you* - that this keeps coming up over and over again and it's pissing me off.
joreth: (Dobert Demons of Stupidity)

 With gas prices soaring, everyone wants to save money on gas.  Unfortunately, most of what gets passed around the internet is pure bunk (boycotting gas stations will not drop prices, and buying gas early in the morning will not put more gas in your tank for the same price).  Here are some REAL tips for how you can get the most fuel efficiency out of your car.  Of course, the best way to save money on gas is to DRIVE LESS, but since we won't do that, try these:

1) Avoid High Speeds: As your speed increases, your aerodynamic drag increases in an exponential fashion. Driving 62 mph (100 km/h) vs 75 mph (120 km/h) will reduce fuel consumption by about 15%. 

2) Do Not Accelerate or Brake Hard: By anticipating the traffic and applying slow steady acceleration and braking, fuel economy may increase by as much as 20%. 

3) Keep Tires Properly Inflated: Keep tire air pressure at the level recommended by your vehicle manufacturer. A single tire under inflated by 2 PSI, increases fuel consumption by 1%. 

4) Use A/C Sparingly: When the air conditioner is on it puts extra load on the engine forcing more fuel to be used (by about 20%). The defrost position on most vehicles also uses the air conditioner. 

5) Keep Windows Closed: Windows open, especially at highway speeds, increase drag and result in decreased fuel economy of up to 10%. 

6) Service Vehicle Regularly: Proper maintenance avoids poor fuel economy related to dirty air filters, old spark plugs or low fluid levels.  

7) Use Cruise Control: Maintaining a constant speed over long distances often saves gas. 

8) Avoid Heavy Loads: Remove the sand bags from your trunk in the spring, don't carry around tools and gear that you won't need on this trip, and pack lightly for long trips. 

9) Avoid Long Idles: If you anticipate being stopped for more than 1 minute, shut off the car. Restarting the car uses less fuel than letting it idle for longer than a minute, but short idles are cheaper than restarts. 

10) Purchase a Fuel Efficient Vehicle: When buying a new vehicle examine the vehicle's rated fuel efficiency. Usually choosing a small vehicle with a manual transmission will provide you with great fuel economy. 

11) Combine Multiple Trips: Plan several destinations in one day and plan your route to include the most straightforward path instead of going out, coming home, going out, coming home, going out, etc. which can exponentially add to your gas consumption.  Try to drive to each destination with as little doubling-back as possible.
 
You can also visit http://www.gasbuddy.com/ to find the cheapest fuel in your area (for most major cities, you can also type in www.[yourcityname]gasprices.com in your web browser and go directly to that city). 

But before you drive 30 miles across town to save 2 cents per gallon, factor in the amount of gas SPENT in getting there and back.  For instance, if your closest gas station is selling gas at $3.60 and 10 miles away is another gas station selling gas for $3.58 and your car gets 20 miles to the gallon and you have a 10 gallon tank, then you will have spent 1 gallon of gas to get there and back.  That's spending $3.58 in order to save 20 cents.  You just spent 1700% of what you saved!

But, since you should now be combining your errands and trips into one, long, linear path in one day (as opposed to running out to the store every day for just one more thing), you can look up the cheapest gas station on your route and get gas while you're out, rather than making a special trip across town to save a buck (which you won't).

So, pass this around to try and combat the poor advice given out by other emails.  And remember to protect your friends and family's email addresses by putting them in the BCC field and erasing all headers from those who forwarded this to you.  forwardedemails@yahoo.com is available if you must put something in the To field.

http://www.gasbuddy.com/
http://www.snopes.com/inboxer/household/gastips.asp
http://www.snopes.com/politics/gasoline/saudigas.asp

joreth: (Rock Climbing)

I am sorely missing dancing, so I'm thinking of taking a few refresher classes and I thought I'd post about it to see if anyone else is interested. Here's what I'm looking at:

Tuesday, February 5,12,19,26
7:30 pm Silver TANGO / WALTZ, Instructor: Mandy Ball
Fee: $12 per class/$40 for 4 classes

Sunday, February 3, 10, 17, 24
3:30 pm 30-minute Group Lesson: EAST COAST SWING, Gold Instructor: Mandy Ball
Admission: $10 includes group lesson and ‘Sunday Social’ dance! Music 3pm till 6:30pm

As with all Dance ORLANDO classes, students without partners always welcome!
311 Dane Lane in Longwood, Florida 32750
407-830-5523

Please check our website for driving directions tour and details on our events at Dance ORLANDO

www.DanceOrlandoClub.com

 


Instructors: Rob & Dawn

Sunday Afternoons
2 to 3:30pm

Feb. 24th
to
Apr. 6th


Location: The Longwood Ballroom

Video!
The most comprehensive Lindy Hop class in Central Florida!

Lindy Hop (also known as Jitterbug) is the original form of swing dancing, popularized in the 30s and 40s. This six-week series will cover all the essential moves and variations of Lindy Hop. The class will feature both the 6 and 8 count basics including the whip/swing out. There will be a strong concentration on technique and connection to give you a solid foundation in the dance. Good technique will provide the groundwork to feel comfortable on the dance floor and to continue to advance your dancing in the future. Each class will build upon information from the previous class to continuously further your knowledge week by week. Classes will be an hour long followed by a half hour of practice, questions, and individual help. Previous dance experience is helpful, but not required. No partner needed; individuals and couples welcome! Class highlights:

  • Step by step, week by week instruction to make learning easy
  • One hour of instruction per class plus a half hour of help/question time
  • Learn solid lead/follow principals
  • Progress from the 6-count to 8-count basic
  • Learn moves that add style and strengthen the basics
  • Concentration on dance dynamics
  • Learn from experienced instructors teaching as a finely-tuned, cohesive team
  • Class goal is to get you comfortable on the dance floor with Lindy Hop!

Note: No class on Easter Sunday (March 23rd).

Price & Registration: Advanced registration is only $55. Day-of registration (if space is available) is $65.

You can register online in advance for lead spots by clicking on the link below.

Register Online

If you do not wish to register online, you may still register in advance via email or phone. Simply call 407-766-9849 or email lessons@FlyinFootwork.com.

DVD Review: A DVD review of the class is available for $15. The DVD contains all the core material covered in the class so you can practice exactly what you learn at home. When you register with the DVD review option, your video will be availble for you when you check in on the first day of class.

joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
I'm a HUGE fan of Ethiopian food.  It's possibly my favorite type of food at this time, although food is really hard to rank, since it depends on my mood.  But I love Ethiopian food.  It's tasty, it's healthy, and it's a wonderful "poly" or social type of food. 

If you've never eaten Ethiopian food, here's a little about it.  There are beef, chicken and lamb dishes and a massive selection of vegetarian dishes.  It may not turn out to be a favorite of yours, but I guarantee there will be *something* there you can eat, no matter what your dietary needs or even if you're just picky.  You go with several people (yes, you can eat alone or as a couple, but it's more fun in a group).  You each order one dish, or a couple, depending on how many of you there are.  The food then comes all on one large plate (you can request to sepearate the meats and vegetarian dishes onto two separate plates) and is set down in the center of the table.  You are given this flat, spongey bread-like food that comes rolled up like a napkin.  You unroll it, tear off a piece about 2/3 the size of your hand.  Hold it along your palm and fingers like you're trying to conceal it for a magic trick.  Then reach your hand into the food and grab some food using the bread instead of your fingers.  The food, now wrapped in the bread, is then eaten in this manner.

Many of the dishes are spicy, but I have a very low tolerance for spice and there are still several dishes I love.  Everyone shares the food and you can sample many different dishes at one meal.  It's a great social evening.

Why do I bring this up?  Well, previously I could only eat Ethiopian food when I went to California for the holidays.  But I have found an Ethiopian restaurant here in Orlando.  It's on International Drive very close to the Convention Center.  It's a little difficult to find because it's located in a strip mall behind the Howard Johnsons.  Use that as a landmark.  It has a website too, but the website doesn't rank very high on google.  In fact, the first listing for "ethiopian orlando" is for a restaurant that closed some time ago.  Their url is not very intuitive either.  To save everyone else the effort, here's the link:  http://www.nile07.com/pages/home.html.  

So, in my selfish desire to keep this place open as long as possible, and to possibly arrange more group outings, I am recommending it to EVERYONE.  They have a Meat Combination platter and a Vegetarian Platter dish (I forget what it's called exactly) that is wonderful for first-timers who don't know what to order.  I also recommend throwing in a chicken or lamb dish in addition to all the beef in the Meat Sampler - and if you're not a fan of tripe, substitute the "tripa" for a second helping of one of the other meat dishes in that sampler.

So, go eat Ethiopian food!
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
I'm back, I'm exhausted, I'm probably sick.  I had one of the best weekends EVAR!

Pictures to come.

Next up ... Necro!  w00t! 
joreth: (Super Tech)
I've been attending sci-fi conventions for a couple of years now, and I consider myself an amateur costumer ... not quite cosplay and not quite good enough for professional, but pretty damn good for home-made.  I sort of specialize in the costume-on-a-budget and costumes-of-unusual-materials niche without being movie-quality good that your average person couldn't do what I do.  Being interested in costumes, I have attended quite a few costuming panels at the various cons hoping to expand my repetoire of skills, and each and every time I come away thinking "I wasted my time sitting through that, I could have taught it".  The costuming panels are all just too basic, made for the very beginner.  While I think they are valuable presentations, I don't think they are appropriate for me and for quite a few of my friends who are fellow costumers.

At Baycon this year, I sat in on a body-casting workshop.  Again, it turned out to be too basic for me and I felt I could have taught it myself.  The presenter was obviously knowledgable and experienced, far more so than I, but the material covered in the presentation was stuff I had already figured out on my own.  Seeing such a messy presentation, however, got me wondering if I could give a latex presentation?

So I contacted the organizer of Necronomicon and asked if there was a place for me there.  She enthusiastically agreed and scheduled me for Sunday, listing me in the program as "Master Costumer" based on my website and past costumes.  She remembers my metal Slave Leia.  Unfortunately I cannot actually do a live latex demo (something about the fumes being a health concern), but I will have images, samples, and all the materials, and I will give a step-by-step lesson.

So come out to Necro and see my Fire Elf in Masquerade on Saturday night, then check out my workshop on Sunday to see how I made it!
joreth: (Super Tech)

Fire Elf


Pictures of my new all-latex costume and how I made it are all available at http://www.theinnbetween.net/evilelves.html while pictures of my trip to California and Baycon are available at http://www.theinnbetween.net/baycon2007.html

I'm so excited about how this costume turned out *bounce bounce*.
joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
That's right, I'm going to California ... wheeee!

I fly into SJ on the 23rd and I fly out on the 30th and the whole trip is devoted to Baycon and visiting [profile] corpsefairyand her circle of friends ... no family!  Although I should probably at least tell them I'll be there.

Oh, and I'm working on a new costume that will hopefully be unveiled at Baycon this year!  As a side note, the weapons in the original concept did NOT work out at all, but I came up with a nifty alternative  *bounce bounce*.

So, anyone wanting to get together while I'm in town, please let me know so we can coordinate.  I'll be dependent on other people for transportation and lodging, so I'm not quite as free with my time as I usually am when I travel, and probably the *best* time to guarantee seeing me will be at Baycon (although I will be taking some time out of that Saturday to watch [profile] corpsefairy graduate *yay*!).
joreth: (Default)
 Officially, I'm now moving Friday, April 13th.  I tried to do it on Saturday, but I have to work in Orlando on Sunday at 8 AM, so that really would have sucked for me.

So, Friday, April 13th, 9 AM I pick up the truck.

Most of my things are already boxed up and stacked in the garage.  In the house, I have my computer desk with computer stuff, my air mattress, the clothes in my closet, a large dresser, 2 nightstands, and another small growing pile of boxes.

This should be a relatively easy move, but I know I can't move the dresser by myself, nor can I put it on a dolly/handtruck because it's a long (wide) dresser, not a tall one.  

Then I'd like some help at the Orlando end to unload the truck.  Fortunately, I have the truck for 2 days so if it's too late, I can unload on Saturday too.

I'm still offering up pizza and drinks as payment!

Call me or email me for the address!

**UPDATE**  I apparently forgot that I have another gig on Saturday, so it looks like Friday is my only day for moving.  Thanks to those who offered to help on Saturday, but unless I get out of work early, that's not gonna happen :-(  I just hope I find time between Saturday and Sunday at 9 to return the truck without any late charges.
joreth: (Super Tech)

So it looks like I will have to officially move this week because the other animals move in a day or two before the 18th and I will be out of the state during those days.  I haven't received permission from my new housemate yet, nor have I reserved the truck, but I'm putting the word out anyway. 

Fortunately, most of my stuff is already boxed up and pre-packed into a truck-like space in the garage.  There are just some odds and ends (and furniture) in the house.  So I could use some help packing up the truck for a one-way move to Orlando from Palm Harbor, and I could REALLY use someone who can either drive stick shift to drive my car, or is comfortable driving a large moving van so I won't have to rent a tow-dolly for my car.  I'd prefer to move on Thursday (April 12th), but if more people are willing to help on Saturday, I'll pay the extra for a weekend truck rental.

I'll supply pizza and drinks!

joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)

That's right, after several years of avoiding it, then a year or so of intentionally *trying* for it and failing, finally, all the pieces fell into place in less than a month.  

I'm moving to Orlando!

And I'll be there by the first of May!

joreth: (Rock Climbing)

There's a chance I'll be in Orlando on Saturday or on Monday for a couple of hours totally unrelated to work (for once!).  So who wants to go rock climbing?  

http://www.aiguille.com/home/index.shtml - after 3 PM?  I'll firm up the details after I coordinate with whoever else wants to go.

joreth: (Silent Bob Headbang)
Here  is a happy post. Here are a couple of pics I pulled off my camera really quick to share. I'll upload them all to my website when I get back home and won't get yelled at for saving "stuff" all over my mother's harddrive and can actually use a computer with a picture editor on it. Anyway, here ya go! 

 

So I actually had a good time out here on a couple of days.

joreth: (Rock Climbing)
This past Sunday, I went rock climbing in Orlando with [livejournal.com profile] james_the_evil1 and here are the pics of me, plus a video. He has pics of him in his journal, and I will be posting these shortly to my website.


































And here's a youtube video of me climbing with James belaying for me.





That was fun ... must go again!

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