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from alaink1:
hello
like your profile. new to the area and hoping to meet some new people. if u see my email hopefully u will see that i think your beautiful,
ciao
alain
From Me:
You clearly did not read the profile.
from alaink1:
i sent u a cut and paste message because thats all u meritt. so fuck off. i think its funny so fuck off. your a lame bitch and have been kicked out of better whore houses so fuck off. so fuck off. i feel sorry for anyman that has to put up with a confused dyke so fuck off. try a woman so fuck off. fuck off, lololololol therres your clue to a joke so fuck off
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what a douche. No wonder you have to use cut and paste messages, you have no imagination of your own.
That's quality right here. THIS is what women have to put up with on a daily basis. His original message, for all that it's a form letter, is pretty polite. We have no way of knowing that rejecting a man who presents politely will react in such a violet and aggressive manner. In person, that's a terrifying thought. I never wish to have to draw my knife on another person for refusing my rejection again, but I carry it because I had to once, so I may have to once more.
Also, if you follow the link to his profile, you'll notice that he's not some punk kid - he's a 42 year old man who should know better. But I wouldn't be able to tell that from his behaviour or his atrocious spelling and grammar.
I understand that it feels bad to know that women are automatically defensive around you men when you have done nothing to merit that defensiveness. But please understand that it's the fault of assholes like this that are responsible. He did nothing to merit my defenses either, at first. If you were bombarded daily, online and in person, by people giving you unwanted attention, and by refusing rejections, and when those people are always bigger and stronger than you, you would understand just how frightening the world can be.
It is safer for me to assume that you will harm me and be wrong, than it is for me to assume that you are just as nice as you seem at first and then be wrong about that.
THIS is the reason why women stay away from certain places, like gaming communities and atheist communities, and it will take the assistance of the genuinely nice guys to stand up to these fucktards - not to "protect the wimmenfolk", but to exact a social penalty on such bad behaviour and simultaneously distinguishing between the "good guys" and the "bad guys", so that we can more easily tell who really deserves our defenses and who doesn't.
This, by the way, violates the TOS under the Conduct Clause. Please make liberal use of the Report button when someone approaches you and harasses you in this manner. Maybe we can kick out most of the assholes and make places like OKC safer for women - that way the nice guys can actually find us.
hello
like your profile. new to the area and hoping to meet some new people. if u see my email hopefully u will see that i think your beautiful,
ciao
alain
From Me:
You clearly did not read the profile.
from alaink1:
i sent u a cut and paste message because thats all u meritt. so fuck off. i think its funny so fuck off. your a lame bitch and have been kicked out of better whore houses so fuck off. so fuck off. i feel sorry for anyman that has to put up with a confused dyke so fuck off. try a woman so fuck off. fuck off, lololololol therres your clue to a joke so fuck off
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0% Enemy1% Friend70% Match Message from alaink1
From me:
what a douche. No wonder you have to use cut and paste messages, you have no imagination of your own.
That's quality right here. THIS is what women have to put up with on a daily basis. His original message, for all that it's a form letter, is pretty polite. We have no way of knowing that rejecting a man who presents politely will react in such a violet and aggressive manner. In person, that's a terrifying thought. I never wish to have to draw my knife on another person for refusing my rejection again, but I carry it because I had to once, so I may have to once more.
Also, if you follow the link to his profile, you'll notice that he's not some punk kid - he's a 42 year old man who should know better. But I wouldn't be able to tell that from his behaviour or his atrocious spelling and grammar.
I understand that it feels bad to know that women are automatically defensive around you men when you have done nothing to merit that defensiveness. But please understand that it's the fault of assholes like this that are responsible. He did nothing to merit my defenses either, at first. If you were bombarded daily, online and in person, by people giving you unwanted attention, and by refusing rejections, and when those people are always bigger and stronger than you, you would understand just how frightening the world can be.
It is safer for me to assume that you will harm me and be wrong, than it is for me to assume that you are just as nice as you seem at first and then be wrong about that.
THIS is the reason why women stay away from certain places, like gaming communities and atheist communities, and it will take the assistance of the genuinely nice guys to stand up to these fucktards - not to "protect the wimmenfolk", but to exact a social penalty on such bad behaviour and simultaneously distinguishing between the "good guys" and the "bad guys", so that we can more easily tell who really deserves our defenses and who doesn't.
This, by the way, violates the TOS under the Conduct Clause. Please make liberal use of the Report button when someone approaches you and harasses you in this manner. Maybe we can kick out most of the assholes and make places like OKC safer for women - that way the nice guys can actually find us.
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Date: 7/30/11 10:29 pm (UTC)From:no subject
Date: 7/30/11 11:33 pm (UTC)From:So, I'll say that I wouldn't tell anyone NOT to tell him about this, but I wouldn't exactly recommend it either, unless you happen to like sparring with the maturity-deficient online ;-)