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[joreth]

=====Vinnie_Teranova wrote=====
For a spectacle-wearing ordinary tart, you sure have quite a feisty attitude. I think you're in need of Anger Management and thereafter a visit to a hair and make-up artist to make you look good.
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Fuck off asshole.

That's the pot calling the kettle ugly

Fucking moronic asshat.


Guys, if you don't like me, don't message me. Seriously, why waste your time? I don't give a flying fuck if you think I'm ugly or bitchy. I don't care and I don't want to hear it. Spend your time on someone who thinks you're worth half a shit.

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[datan0de.livejournal.com]

Anyone who advises you to wear makeup or do anything different with your hair clearly doesn't know the first thing about you and needs to get stuffed. For the record, *I* think you're quite pretty, and makeup be damned! Granted, I do think that (online at least) you're a total bitch, but I happen to find that to be one of your most charming traits. :-)

[joreth]

:-) aww, why thank you.

Yes, I am a total bitch online, and I'm OK with that :-D If I wasn't, I'd change it.

I am always amused in a "boy, is that sad" kinda way when people offer advice to completely change who a person is in order to land a partner.

I really *don't care* if someone is not attracted to me. Seriously, I'm not offended at all if someone doesn't like me. It doesn't make any sense to me to try and change my appearance or personality in order to attract someone who doesn't like me.

I was watching Oprah yesterday (hush, it was only because it was an episode about alternative sexuality and was announced on the poly lists) and one woman mentioned her "pineapple theory".

She was explaining why she had more confidence after a certain age than when she was younger. She asked Oprah if Oprah liked pineapple. Oprah did. This woman (I forget her name) absolutely hates pineapple.

She explained that there's really nothing wrong with the pineapple, it's all about preference. Some people like her, some people don't, and it doesn't mean there's actually anything *wrong* with her.

I also tried to explain this to my sister when she makes stupid comments about how geeks can't get laid (she made me watch the 40 Year Old Virgin with her). I explained that there are certain types of women who *do* find geeks attractive and the virgin didn't need to change himself to find a girlfriend, he only needed to find a girlfriend who was into whatever he is - and we all know about the hundreds, if not thousands, of hot chicks all conveniently found in a single location, several times a year around the country who really dig geeks!

Besides, makeup is expensive and runs in the heat at work. And it often ages people faster so that they end up *needing* makeup to cover the makeup damage of their youth. There's a reason I continued to get carded for movies until last year (note, to buy a rated R movie, you have to be over seventeen). My looks are finally starting to catch up with my age, but contrast that to women who look 10 years older than they are because of hard living and bad makeup and brittle hair due to too many hair products.