More Online Skeezballs

[joreth]

=====I-Am-JoeDirt wrote=====
So can i be one of your lovers  to tie up and abuse.

=====Joreth wrote=====
Clearly you didn't read my profile very well.  Fuck off.

=====I-Am-JoeDirt wrote=====
i was just trying to be humorous. Sorry to have offended. Have a nice day sweety.

=====Joreth wrote=====
If you had read my profile, you would have known that wouldn't be humorous to me.

=====I-Am-JoeDirt wrote=====
I read that you are polyamorous?  I thought that meant you are open to multiple lovers, and that you are into BDSM  so  i did not think you were an easily offended kind of person  i thought you were of the un-inhibated sort and would not take offense at such things......I stand corrected . Please forgive me.

=====Joreth wrote=====
 One more time before I block you.  READ THE PROFILE.  The very first paragraph is a list of things that piss me off.  Any comments about propositioning me for sex or fetish play are unwelcome.  Any emails that give me nothing of interest to respond to are publicly rejected.  Everything about the beginning of my profile screams "easily offended" as I start out by telling all kinds of people to fuck off. 

This has nothing to do with being inhibited, it has to do with being sick of jerks coming onto me online even when I specifically say "don't ask me for sex".  The fact that it was supposed to be a joke is totally irrelevant.  First of all, you make no indication it was supposed to be a joke, and in case you also haven't read my journal, I have no way of knowing it was supposed to be funny because people actually do send me emails like that.  Second of all, that's hardly an original approach.  For every 2 guys that legitimately are that stupid, one of you decides it would be cute to proposition me in exactly the manner I say not to because somehow the irony of it will make it a forgiveable offense.

Now, if you don't have anything more valuable to say to me, fuck off.

Comments

[james-the-evil1.livejournal.com]

Heck, I know you & I'm STILL scared to ask you for sex.
I guess it's ok for these guys on the net 'cause you're less likely to be able to slap them in the face?

[joreth]

that's why I do it metaphorically by posting their correspondence online :-D

Theres more than one

[(Anonymous)]

I now see that Joe is a different skeeze ball than Jabba, so direct prior comment towards both of them.

[leora.livejournal.com]

It's the "sweety" in the second reply that really annoys me and makes me view him as an asshole.

[joreth]

That's funny, that pissed me off too but around here it's supposed to be a non-offensive thing to say to women. The south is still pretty backwards in some ways.

[leora.livejournal.com]

Well, where I come from that's rude. But even ignoring that... you just told him to fuck off for not reading your profile and avoiding things that you find offensive, and then he replies with something from your profile that you find offensive. I honestly wonder if that was a deliberate attempt to be rude, which makes it even ruder. But either way, it's now an obvious rudeness.

[joreth]

That's exactly how I felt about it. I just told him, literally, to fuck off and he felt the need to reply. And he continues to do so. I think he's thinking that if he apologizes, I'll forgive him, but I have no idea why he would care if I forgive him or not. But his apologies continue to piss me off, as though he didn't learn his lesson from the last time I told him to fuck off

[a-rowan-dryad.livejournal.com]

Oh he would care if you forgave him because he was just out to get laid! Your average less than respect worthy female (you know the ones who are 180 of you - based on what I have read) are like that. The fellow figured he could treat you like them... in other words approach "A" clearly didn't work so a quick and dirty apology and attempt again because in showing you he wants to figure out the way into your pants he stands a better chance and getting laid. Now I don't opperate this way either but I have seen it in action. The first time the guy asks he has a 50% shot at getting lucky... but if he keeps trying his percentage chance goes up.... at least that is what I have been unfortunate witness to.