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Q. If your favorite celebrity crush, actually wanted you, how would you leave your spouse, and how would you trust this new relationship?
A. I wouldn’t leave my spouse or “trust this new relationship”. When one of my celebrity crushes asked me out a few years ago, I called my partner (who was not yet my spouse at that time) up and said “you’ll never guess who just asked me out!” And then I made a date with my crush and we’ve been involved ever since.
I “trust” the new relationship the same way that I “trust” any new relationship. I look into their history and see if anything they tell me is verifiable, and then I also pay attention to see if their actions match their words while we’re together. Over time, I build up trust based on their integrity - how well their word stands up in practice.
So far, everything my celebrity crush has told me about himself has been verified in public interviews so I give him the same benefit of the doubt that I give any new partner unless or until things change.
Should any other “celebrity crush” happen to become aware of my existence and want to be with me (which, given that I work in entertainment, is a possibility), that’ll be handled the same way.
Q. If your favorite celebrity crush, actually wanted you, how would you leave your spouse, and how would you trust this new relationship?
A. I wouldn’t leave my spouse or “trust this new relationship”. When one of my celebrity crushes asked me out a few years ago, I called my partner (who was not yet my spouse at that time) up and said “you’ll never guess who just asked me out!” And then I made a date with my crush and we’ve been involved ever since.
I “trust” the new relationship the same way that I “trust” any new relationship. I look into their history and see if anything they tell me is verifiable, and then I also pay attention to see if their actions match their words while we’re together. Over time, I build up trust based on their integrity - how well their word stands up in practice.
So far, everything my celebrity crush has told me about himself has been verified in public interviews so I give him the same benefit of the doubt that I give any new partner unless or until things change.
Should any other “celebrity crush” happen to become aware of my existence and want to be with me (which, given that I work in entertainment, is a possibility), that’ll be handled the same way.
