joreth | (Reply)

I think OkCupid is trying to be more poly friendly, but unfortunately they just don't quite get polyamory yet. I have observed that many, many people start being actively poly by opening an existing relationship, and I suppose it's hard for people to wrap their heads around any other model. But nope, adding the ability to link to one and only one partner in the sidebar is just the opposite of poly friendly. I like how FetLife allows you to add as many partners and relationship structures as you want. Perhaps OkCupid will follow suit eventually.