I have a friend who likes to have her choices taken away. She wants to be forced to do things. In her perfect equivalent of a zipless fuck, she'd be kidnapped and made to do things.
I've always found this to be annoying. I work with willing submissives, not kidnap victims. Yet often the day after an evening she'll say, "You should have made me ..."
Now what I did was take her to a club and tell her she didn't have to do anything. That was what got her to come in the door. While there, as she watched scenes, I asked her 3 or 4 times if she wanted to try any of the pieces of equipment or do anything. Each time she said, "No. I'm fine."
She's a friend of long standing but this has always driven me crazy. I want her to at least say, "Yeah, I'd like you to do something like that to me." She wants me to pick up a hint and go from there.
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Date: 8/30/11 01:21 am (UTC)From:I've always found this to be annoying. I work with willing submissives, not kidnap victims. Yet often the day after an evening she'll say, "You should have made me ..."
Now what I did was take her to a club and tell her she didn't have to do anything. That was what got her to come in the door. While there, as she watched scenes, I asked her 3 or 4 times if she wanted to try any of the pieces of equipment or do anything. Each time she said, "No. I'm fine."
She's a friend of long standing but this has always driven me crazy. I want her to at least say, "Yeah, I'd like you to do something like that to me." She wants me to pick up a hint and go from there.
Esp. with her, I won't.