That's a common attitude I encounter when I mention that I like ballroom dancing, in spite of ballroom dancing, and dancing in general, making a huge splash in popular culture lately with two of the most popular contest-style TV shows, Dancing With The Stars and So You Think You Can Dance. And I think it's great that both shows are so popular, but something they both fail to do, is convince the average American audience that your average Joe can pick up a few steps, go out anywhere in public, and expect to show off his skills. With So You Think You Can Dance, those dancers are all professionals or have been training for years, or are otherwise exceptional athletes, who just happen to be learning new styles for this competition. In Dancing With The Stars, sure, they take "normal" people, i.e. people who have not necessarily ever danced before, and teach them how to dance, but they're celebrities that can afford (and are getting paid) to spend hours and hours every day training one-on-one with a professional dancer. And many of those celebrities are, actually, athletes, just not in dance.
So, what about the average Joe? What about you and me, who will never have the money or the time for a dedicated pro, who has no desire to enter a competition, and who just wants to go to the next family wedding and pull out a couple of moves to impress people with even less dance talent than us? What about the guy who doesn't watch the shows and hears the phrase "ballroom dancing" and thinks 18th century Vienna?
Well first, there are lots of places, especially in cities, that offer dance opportunities. It's called "social dance", and the venues offer large dance floors to just go out and have a good time, with no judges, no ballgowns, and plenty of good music. Most of these places offer free or cheap lessons about an hour before the dance floor opens up, and you don't need to sign up or commit to a series of classes. You just show up, learn a few steps, then cut a rug an hour later with everyone else! I maintain a calendar of just such events for the Orlando and Tampa areas.
Second, there is a huge misconception about what kind of music qualifies as "ballroom" dance music. There are so many different styles of dance, that there is at least one for pretty much every rhythm available in Western music. See, Western music hasn't changed much in the last hundred years. Well, OK, there have been some major changes in music styles, but the rhythms come in only a few flavors that keep getting repeated, over and over again, for decades. Yes, there are exceptions, let's not get derailed by minutae from the point here. Basically, Western music comes in 4/4, 6/8, or 3/4 time* and, for the most part, that's pretty much it. Those time signatures can be varied a little by changing which beat gets the emphasis, creating a lilting or a swing feel, and the combination of lilting/non-lilting rhythms and those 3 time signatures are what makes up the foundation for Western music ... and for ballroom dancing!
As an example, I'm going to show you my own personal music collection for dance music. Below the cut is a list of songs arranged by the type of dance that you can do to it. You'll see some specialty, foreign, classical, and classic music, but you'll also see some popular, modern music - the kind you will hear at regular nightclubs, concerts, weddings, parties (especially office parties and conferences), and even restaurants and tourist attractions! I have often broken out into dance at restaurants that had music playing over the loudspeakers, or in hotel lobbies, or waiting in line at a movie or theme park. Now, I'm not the most up-to-date when it comes to the cutting edge of pop music and rock, so my playlists might skew a bit towards the older music, but I think you'll be surprised by a few of the songs in the list, and some of them should at least give you an idea of what to look for in whatever genre you prefer or whatever's playing on the radio and in the clubs at the time you read this.
Another thing that you might notice is that the playlists are weighted a bit towards country music. The reason is because I didn't go out looking specifically for dance music, I just searched the music I already had and this is what I came up with. So the list has a lot of country partly because I just like country music, so I have more of that than any other genre, but partly because "country" is like "rock" - a hugely varied genre that has dozens of distinct sub-genres of its own. Country music is a great place to find songs for ballroom dancing, which is the primary reason why I brave the cigarette smoke & obnoxious men and visit the country bars. I know, I know, many of you are just convinced that you don't like country music, and I have no solution to that. But if you want to dance, or you want to know more about dance music, and you don't know where to start looking for music that isn't in your grandpa's record collection, country music is a great place to begin.
Clicking on the names of the artist takes you to that version of the song, mostly on YouTube, but a few from other locations if YouTube didn't have it. Most are videos, but a couple are just the audio. Several of these songs can be danced by dance styles other than the category they're listed under. I duplicated a few, but I'm sure I missed some, and I also left out a whole bunch of dance styles, like rhumba and quickstep and paso doble, primarily because they're not dance styles I know well and they're not nearly as popular outside of ballroom circles as the ones I did list.
Y = YouTube video, M = MySpace audio, V = Other video source, A = Other audio source. All YouTube videos are collected into a single video playlist window below each dance style list. All MySpace audio files are collected into a single audio playlist which is linked below that style's list, because MySpace won't let me embed playlists.
Cha Cha
- I Need To Know, Marc Anthony - Y
- Shagging On The Boulevard, Alabama - Y
- Ain't That A Shame, Diana Gatto - Y
- Heard Through Grapevine, Creedance Clearwater Revival / Gladys Knight / Marvin Gaye - Y
- September, Earth, Wind, and Fire - Y
- Gimme All Your Lovin', ZZ Top - Y
- Shake Your Groove Thing, Peaches & Herb
- Lying Is the Most Fun a Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off, Panic! at the Disco - Y
- Oye Como Va, Santana - Y
- Kung Fu Fighting, Carl Douglas - Y
- Fuck You, Cee Lo Green - Y
- Jumping Jack Flash, The Rolling Stones - Y
- Wild Thing, The Troggs / The Wild Ones / Fancy / X (any cover that's not too slow, like Jimi Hendrix) - Y
- Photograph, Def Leppard - Y
- Stuck In The Middle With You, Stealers Wheel - Y/Michael Buble - A
- Something Stupid, Robbie Williams - Y
- Kiss, Prince - V
- Save The Last Dance, The Drifters / Bruce Willis / Dolly Parton / Michael Buble - Y
- Addicted to Love, Robert Palmer - Y
- Should I Stay Or Should I Go?, The Clash - Y
- Hungry Like A Wolf, Duran Duran - Y
- Mustang Sally, Buddy Guy - Y
- Nothing But A Good Time, Poison - Y
- Walking On The Sun, Smash Mouth - Y
- Honey Love, The Drifters / Stephen Remmler - Y
- You Spin Me 'Round (Like a Record), Dead Or Alive - Y
- I Just Want to Dance With You, George Strait - Y
- Ain't Nothing 'Bout You, Brooks & Dunn - Y
- Centerfold, J. Geils Band - Y
- Girls Just Want to Have Fun, Cyndi Lauper - Y
- Mi Corazon Perdito En Ti (My Heart Is Lost To You), Brooks & Dunn - Y
- Smooth, Santana, featuring Rob Thomas - Y
- Potential Breakup Song, Aly & AJ - Y
Foxtrot
- I Want to Be Loved by You, Sinéad O'Connor / Marilyn Monroe / Helen Kane - Y
- Fly Me To The Moon, Frank Sinatra - Y
- Beyond the sea, Robbie Williams - Y
- The Best Is Yet To Come, Nancy Wilson - Y
- I've Got You Under My Skin, Frank Sinatra - Y
- Spread a Little Happiness, Sting - Y
- My Blue Heaven, Bing Crosby / Frank Sinatra - Y
Hustle (not the line dance, the partner dance)
- Heart Is On The Line, Rod Stewart - A
- When The Rain Begins To Fall, Jermain Jackson & Pia Zadora - Y
- Don't Go, Yazoo - Y
- Get Outta My Dreams, Get Into My Car, Billy Ocean - Y
- Chain Reaction, Diana Ross / Steps - Y
- Nails for Breakfast, Tacks for Snacks, Panic! at the Disco - Y
- I'm Too Sexy, Right Said Fred - Y
- 70's Disco Dance Mix 1, Jive Bunny & The Mastermixers
- Ken Mouka, Wes - Y
- She's Got To Be Somebody's Baby, Jackson Browne - Y
- Disco Duck, Rick Dees - Y
- Macho Man, Village People - Y
- YMCA, Village People - Y
- The Hustle, Van McCoy - Y
- Send Me An Angel, Real Life - Y
- Stayin' Alive, Bee Gees - Y
- Shake Your Groove Thing, Peaches & Herb - Y
Salsa
- La Isla Bonita, Madonna - Y
- I Just Want to Dance With You, George Strait - Y
- Juanita (Red Disc), Shania Twain - Y
- Switch, Will Smith - Y
- Time Of My Life, Bill Medley & Jennifer Warnes - Y
- Mi Corazon Perdito En Ti (My Heart Is Lost To You), Brooks & Dunn - Y
- Smooth, Santana, featuring Rob Thomas - Y
- Bailamos, Enrique Iglesias - Y
- I Need To Know, Marc Anthony - Y
Swing - either East Coast/Jive or Lindy
- Shagging On The Boulevard, Alabama - Y
- Why Don't You Do Right?, Sinéad O'Connor / Jessica Rabbit / Peggy Lee / Ella Fitzgerald - Y
- They Can't Take That Away From Me, Frank Sinatra & Natalie Cole - Y / Jane Monheit & John Pizzarelli - Y / Robbie Williams - A
- Tainted Love, Soft Cell / Stella Starlight Trio - Y (most of the other versions don't have that "swing" feel to it, including the original by Gloria Jones, but these two versions are OK)
- Paris, Tennessee, Kenny Chesney - M
- Rainbow Rider, Chris LeDoux - M
- Just Enough Money, Honey, Chris LeDoux - M
- Shake Your Tail Feather, Blues Brothers / The Five Du-Tones / Tina TurnerJames & Bobby Purify - Y
- Fun, Fun, Fun, Beach Boys / Status Quo - Y
- Beale Street Mama, Cab Calloway - M
- The Jumpin' Jive, Cab Calloway - Y
- With Imagination (I'll Get There), Harry Connick Jr. - Y
- Chantilly lace, Big Bopper - Y
- Swing From Paris, Django Reinhardt - Y
- The South's Gonna Do It Again, Charlie Daniels - Y
- Let It Roll, Charlie Daniels - Y
- This Cat's on a Hot Tin Roof, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- Let's Live It Up, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- Jump Jive And Wail, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- You're the Boss, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- Rock This Town, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- Nosey Joe, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- I Write Sins Not Tragedies, Panic! at the Disco - Y
- Saturday Night Fish Fry, Buddy Guy - Y
- Mr. Pinstripe Suit, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy - Y
- Go Daddy-O, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy - Y
- Swing Sisters Swing, Jive Bunny & The Mastermixers - Y
- Swing The Mood, Jive Bunny & The Mastermixers - Y
- 60's Dance Medly, Jive Bunny & The Mastermixers - Y
- La Bamba, Los Lobos / Ritchie Valens - Y
- Dig That Crazy Chick, Sam Butera & The Witnesses - Y
- Jitterbug, Charlie Daniels - A
- I Got A Woman, Ray Charles - Y
- Wrapped Around, Brad Paisley - Y
- We Got The Beat, The GoGos - Y
- Mack the knife, Robbie Williams / Bobby Darin / Louis Armstrong / Ella Fitzgerald / Michael Buble - Y
- Straighten Up And Fly Right, Robbie Williams / Nat King Cole / The Andrew Sisters - Y
- Things, Robbie Williams - Y
- Stomp for Benny, Big Band - Y
- Lindyhop, Big Band - Y
- Jitterbug, Big Band - Y
- Come See Me Tonight, Big Band - Y
- Jingle Bell Rock, Bobby Helms / Brenda Lee / Miley Cyrus / Metal Xmas / Aly & AJ / The Rubber Band - Y
- Ding-Dong Daddy of the D-Car Line, Cherry Poppin Daddies - Y
- Brown Derby Jump, Cherry Poppin Daddies - Y
- Master and Slave, Cherry Poppin Daddies - Y
- No Mercy For Swine, Cherry Poppin Daddies - Y
- Let's Twist Again, Chubby Checker / Country Sisters - Y
- Last Resort, Richard Cheese - Y
- All Shook Up, Elvis Presley - Y
- Ice Cream Man, Van Halen - Y
- Spiderman Theme, Michael Buble (here is an example of a couple lindy-hopping to this song while dressed as Spiderman!) - Y
- Cadillac Ranch, Chris Ledoux - Y
- This Old House, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- I Ain't Never Seen No One Like You, George Strait - Y
- Johnny B. Goode, Chuck Berry / Marty McFly - Y
- I'm Ready If You're Willing, Chris LeDoux - M
- Wild and Wooly, Chris LeDoux - M
- Sons of the Pioneers, Chris LeDoux - M
- The Dirty Boogie, Brian Setzer Orchestra - Y
- Hound Dog, Elvis Presley / Big Mama Thornton (the original & a very different version) - Y
- Jailhouse Rock, Elvis Presley / Blues Brothers - Y
- It's Midnight Cinderella, Garth Brooks - M
- Mr. Right, Garth Brooks - A
- Tell Her About It, Billy Joel
- Hell, Squirrel Nut Zippers - Y/Squirrel Nut Zippers - A (the mp3 is a much better quality than the YouTube video, but the YT is, well, a video)
- My Blue Heaven, Fats Domino / Nat King Cole - Y
- King Of Swing, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy - Y
- You & Me & The Bottle Makes, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy - Y
- Jump With My Baby, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy - Y
- Summertime Blues, Brian Setzer Orchestra / Eddie Cochran / Alan Jackson - Y
- Overnight Male, George Strait - Y
- Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy, The Andrews Sisters - Y
- Candyman, Christina Aquilera - Y
- Boogie Woogie Fiddle Country Blues, Charlie Daniels - Y
- Zoot Suit Riot, Cherry Poppin Daddies - Y
- When I Change Your Mind, Cherry Poppin Daddies - Y
- Dr. Bones, Cherry Poppin Daddies - Y
- Rock This Town, The Stray Cats - Y
- Even Cowboys Like A Little Rock N Roll, Chris LeDoux & Charlie Daniels - Y
- Crazy Little Thing Called Love, Queen - Y
- Hit The Road Jack, Ray Charles - Y
- Closer, Richard Cheese - Y
- Put A Lid On It, Squirrel Nut Zippers - Y
- Nookie, Richard Cheese - Y
http://www.myspace.com/stagehandtees/music/playlists/dance-music-swing-1556462
Tango
- Cell Block Tango, Chicago Movie Soundtrack - Y
- Blue Tango, Leroy Anderson / James Last / Liberace / Amanda Lear / Billy Vaughn Orchestra / The Ventures a '50s rock version - Y
- Blue Tango (different song), Joe Dolan - Y
- El Tango De Roxanne, Ewan Mcgregor, Jose Feliciano, Jacek Koman - Y
- Solo Quiero Caminar (Tangos), Paco De Lucía - Y
- Seven Nation Army, The White Stripes - Y
- Oh, Pretty Woman, Roy Orbison - Y
- Objection, Shakira Spanish or English - Y
- Tenth Avenue Tango, Bruce Willis - Y
- You Give Love a Bad Name, Bon Jovi - Y
- Toes, The Wet Spots - A
- Masochism Tango, Tom Leher or accoustic version - Y/Pennsylvania 6-5000 - V
Waltz - Viennese & American Standard
- Between Midnight and Daylight, Kenny Chesney - M
- The Lady Is Dancing With Me, Chris LeDoux
- Get Back on That Pony, Chris LeDoux - Y
- Be Here To Love Me, Norah Jones - Y
- Feels Like Today, Rascal Flatts
- Hedwig's Theme, John Williams (Harry Potter) / with all the non-waltz segments removed plus waltz dancers - Y
- She's Always A Woman, Billy Joel - Y
- I'll Be, Edwin McCain full version / accoustic - Y
- End Of The Road, Boyz II Men - Y
- Wedding Dance, Viva La Musica String Quartet - Y
- A Natural Woman, Aretha Franklin / Adele - Y
- The Grand Waltz, Sound Of Music - Y
- Edelweiss, Christopher Plummer & Julie Andrews - Y
- Laendler, Sound of Music Orchestra - Y
- Processional Waltz, Sound of Music Orchestra - Y
- Mr. Bojangles, Jerry Jeff Walker / Robbie Williams / Nitty Gritty Dirt Band / Sammy Davis, Jr. / Neil Diamond - Y
- Take It to the Limit, The Eagles - Y
- Tuesday's Gone, Lynyrd Skynyrd - Y
- Alcohol, Brad Paisley - Y
- I'm Still A Guy, Brad Paisley - Y
- First and Last Waltz, Nickel Creek - Y
- When You Go, Jonathan Coulton - Y
- Skeptic, George Hrab
- My House, Randy Travis - M
- That's the Truth, George Strait - M
- 4 Minus 3 Equals Zero, George Strait - M
- Two in a Million, Chris LeDoux - M
- Für Elise, Trans-Siberian Orchestra / Beethoven / Daniel Tildwell (electric guitar-metal version) - Y
- A Final Dream, Trans-Siberian Orchestra - Y
- A Weekend In New England, Roger Whittaker / Barry Manilow - Y
- King of the Mountain, George Strait
- Kentucky Waltz, Bill Monroe / The Del McCoury Band/
- The Ol' Double Diamond, Chris LeDoux
- Six Bucks a Day, Chris LeDoux - M or Chris LeDoux - A
- Fathers and Sons, Chris LeDoux - M/John Barlow Jarvis - Y
- One Ride in Vegas, Chris LeDoux - M
- If You Don't Know Me By Now, Simply Red / Harold Melvin & the Blue Notes
- Open Arms, Journey
- Moon River, Lawrence Welk / Andy Williams / Audrey Hepburn / Andrea Ross / Henry Mancini / Jennifer Love Hewitt / Sarah Brightman - Y
- When I need you, Leo Sayer - Y
- Blue Danube, Johan Strauss - Y
- Are You Lonesome Tonight, Elvis Presley - Y
- You Look So Good in Love, George Strait / Jamie Foxx - Y
- Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman, Bryan Adams / Chris Daughtry - Y
http://www.myspace.com/stagehandtees/music/playlists/dance-music-waltz-1558282
*For those with absolutely no music theory, here's a very basic summary of what those fractions mean. 4/4 time is the most common time signature and what almost all of the music you listen to is written in (even without knowing what style of music you listen to). It's the music that you can count "1, 2, 3, 4, 1, 2, 3, 4" to if you say the numbers on the beats of the song. It sounds like the rhythm repeats itself every 4 counts, because that's what it's doing.
3/4 time is music that you can only count to 3 before you have to start over with 1. 6/8 time is, for most people with no music theory, indistinguishable from 3/4 time, but people who understand it will actually count to 6 because the beat after 6 is heavier than the beat after 3. In other words, in 3/4 time, the heaviest beat is on the one, and it repeats itself every 3 beats. In 6/8 time, it might sound like there's a heavier beat after the 3, but it's not as distinctive as the beat after 6, so that, in order for the beat on 1 to match every time you say 1, you have to put the 1 after the 6, not after the 3.
If that's confusing and you really want to understand it, I highly recommend taking a musical theory class, where they can give examples and spend more than a single paragraph trying to explain it. I find a greater understanding of how music is composed increases my enjoyment of music in general, so that's not a brush-off, I really do recommend learning musical theory.
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Date: 7/31/11 12:37 am (UTC)From:And besides, should some place actually play one of those songs because it's not a dance club but you're dancing anyway, I consider it an opportunity for a break and a drink of water!
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