Yeah, it's kind of funny, when I became sexually active at a fairly young age, I had very little insecurities or fears about what to do with men. I had some generalizations that seem to hold true, even while I knew that each guy was different and I learned each partner individually. I understood easily how to be with them physically and emotionally.
But women ... I never understood well. I started out having no clue what to do with women physically and, after 3 female partners, I still have no clue what to do with them. And, emotionally, I find I have to work a lot harder to understand where they're coming from and who they are, than I do with men.
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Date: 5/28/09 11:21 am (UTC)From:But women ... I never understood well. I started out having no clue what to do with women physically and, after 3 female partners, I still have no clue what to do with them. And, emotionally, I find I have to work a lot harder to understand where they're coming from and who they are, than I do with men.