It may indeed be the women written to. But what confuses me. . . I can understand their reading my message and deciding "nope, not for me"; I can understand their reading my message (which they think is okay) then my bio and deciding "nope, not for me". What I can't understand is, not reading the message in the first place. Especially when nearly all the women I've sent messages to indicate they were there to meet people - from just penpals on up to future spouses, which should indicate a willingness to at least do a quick read of the bloody message I took time to send them.
Nope. Only a couple of messages read out of dozens.
So, how _do_ I find the (by your lights) "right" women, those who read messages and are willing to reply, even if it's with "Sorry, I'm not looking right now, but thanks for asking."
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Date: 3/3/07 05:24 am (UTC)From:Nope. Only a couple of messages read out of dozens.
So, how _do_ I find the (by your lights) "right" women, those who read messages and are willing to reply, even if it's with "Sorry, I'm not looking right now, but thanks for asking."