Wouldn't THAT be nice? And that's not event getting in to the whole rap about guys who're "nice guys" and "stay friends" without trying to get sex ONLY because they're hoping one day the woman will "wake up" and realize he's the "one." Both sides get in to THAT mental trap, and while some guys do it I see (from my side, anyway) more women who worry about it than guys who actually DO it.
Makes me mental that a) there's so little good communication and b) sex and love and friendship are so poorly defined and badly intertwined by the mainstream.
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And that's not event getting in to the whole rap about guys who're "nice guys" and "stay friends" without trying to get sex ONLY because they're hoping one day the woman will "wake up" and realize he's the "one." Both sides get in to THAT mental trap, and while some guys do it I see (from my side, anyway) more women who worry about it than guys who actually DO it.
Makes me mental that a) there's so little good communication and b) sex and love and friendship are so poorly defined and badly intertwined by the mainstream.