No offense taken, it IS not-friendly ... on purpose :-)

That's definitely a possibility, although I did get these responses before OKC started keeping track and listing how often people respond. I also resorted to using OKC's filter that doesn't let people email me unless they're above a certain percent match, and I *still* get these.

It seems as though people want to deliberately provoke me. That's the part that I don't get. If I find someone obnoxious online, I don't poke at them, I look elsewhere.