You might like the sentiments in a country song that I plan to journal about soon. It's called "It Happens" by Sugarland, and the basic premise is that sometimes bad shit just happens.

"There's no good explanation for it at all! / Ain't no rhyme or reason / no complicated meaning / ain't no need to overthink it / let go lauging / Life don't go quite like you planned it / we try so hard to understand it / irrefutable, indisputable, absoluteable, totally beautiful fact is / psshh it happens!"