http://kauainightdrive.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] kauainightdrive.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] joreth 2009-07-03 07:33 pm (UTC)

I also also extremely bitter on this topic, and I'm only 24.

My family places extreme pressure on me to get married and have kids. They can't seem to decide if I'm "wasting my best years" or "too young to know my own mind." My grandmother, for example, tells me how "Old" I am getting by telling me about how she had all 3 of her children by the time she was my age. Then she'll turn around and tell me that my lackluster interest in marriage or children is a "phase" I will outgrow. Drives me fucking NUTS. Am I kid or an old maid???

And I've never even TRIED to discuss the fact that I prefer non-hetero-normative relationships. I have no biological sex preference, but I have a preference for a little gender-fucking in my fucking, ya know? Sometimes I fantasize about bring a-not-completely-transitioned FTM home or an male-bodied person who likes to cross dress home and telling them I'm getting married. I will never, never do this. But man, I can just imagine the look on their faces.....


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